You lower your vibration, clouding it with negative emotions, moods and ego defenses: shame, guilt, repression, omission of truth, lies, resentment, frustration, denial, rejection, anger
This is a path way that is facilitated with not only an unhealthy mental, physical state, but also a dependency on unhealthy substances and unhealthy ways of living.
The end result of global sexual, emotional, mental repression= WAR
We each have a home frequency- that which our soul naturally thrives. This is where we find our power and freedom- the higher our vibration the more we are able to manifest, because we have more energy available. RULE: To manifest you need energy.
This is the natural LAW OF ATTRACTION. We receive the vibrations we put out- most of you do not even know what vibrations you are putting out, but look at what you are attracting into your life- I promise there is a sequence and a pattern. There is a MATCH and a linearity to everything that occurs in our lives. This is all PHYSICS.
And that is why when I session, I only session with my matches. It means nothing on a material level- it is a pure match of vibration I am feeling for. When I choose my subs, I do so based on intuition. I cannot take everyone because that is not integrity. Integrity is a high vibrational state. The dommes who do not abide by integrity succumb to LOW vibrational states of greed.
YOU should always exercise integrity in choosing a domme too. This is a person who takes accountability over your LIFE for the duration you are with her. Do not violate your own self-respect by handing over your submission to someone you do not feel, in your core, has your best interest in mind. If you opt to time and time again, the root cause of this is a feeling of unworthiness which is inherently LOW-VIBRATIONAL. You rob yourself of true submission, the liberation of letting go which you NEED, when you surrender to someone you do not trust.
That is when you top from the bottom.
EVERYONE naturally has a submissive instinct in varying degrees, just as we each embody both masculine/feminine yin/yang giver/taker duality. This is a part of HUMAN NATURE. Our mission is to find BALANCE to best integrate and align. If you withhold from your submission because it violates certain societal principles, you are greatly INJURING YOURSELF.