Those of you who were once told "I did my best" when you knew in your heart that this was not true, when there's a part of you that knows "best" was not truly the best, but a dismissal of responsibility
are often resigned to situations that do not make you happy
because by accepting someone's lie when they tell you they did their best, when you subconsciously sense not only deceit, but that the other person is manipulating you and they could have, should have done BETTER-
you are accepting that you do not deserve to be treated better
so you accept
sub par treatment the rest of your life from others and from yourself.
It is time to understand that you deserved not just their crummy version of "the best" but that you deserve MORE.
You truly deserve the best.
Let that sink in. Then come find me.